Well, it's hard to end the console war as many, many people are bias. There are the die-hard Sony fanboys, die-hard Xbox fanboys, etc...
I am probably considering myself one of the die-hard Sony fanboys, but I do have an open mind.
Comparing the systems on paper, the PS3 is hands down the best system out on the market. It is a great deal with all the features like you said. If it were to go for the actual retail price it should be, it would easily break 1000 bucks. Not only that but it has Blu-Ray and that's what is out on the market today. HD-DVD is considered obsolete now which means the slight fall from grace for X-box, but it won't harm its sells, just its functions. No longer will you be able to use your X-box to play HD-DVDs since they won't be sold anymore. Again, X-box Live is a great online community and that is usually what is used when arguing what's better; the PS3 or the X-box 360.
I'm sure you've heard your share of "Well PS3 online is free and it doesn't get RROD!", "Well we have X-box Live which smashes your crappy online and HALO and Gears of War!"
To tell the truth, each console favors a certain Genre. If I were to point out some things, I would say 98% of X-box 360 owners are leaning towards the Shooting/Action Genre while PS3 owners are more of RPG/Action Genre. The Wii...well...er...is Family Fun a Genre?
Let's face it, the Wii is for the family and not as powerful as a system as the others. It's a Gimmick system and that is keeping it alive. If it didn't have Super Smash Bros, it wouldn't be as great as a system. I say that because I know plenty of people that have said "I've only bought it for SSBB." But then again you can use that argument with the other consoles, Halo for X-Box and MGS4 and Final Fantasy XIII for PS3.
Let's say there were no such thing as an 'exclusive' (which might be sooner or later). Each system had the same game. X-box 360 would be leading in sales, the PS3 and Wii would be following closely. I say this because X-box 360 has the far superior online community and playing video games by yourself just isn't that fun sometimes. The Wii would only be close to the PS3 because of it's WiiMote.
Now we take consideration into the remotes. Like I said before about 98% of X-box 360 owners are Shooters. And that is what the controller stresses the most. The X-box 360 controller is easily the most comfortable controller for Shooting games. The trigger doesn't put stress on the fingers and the button placements are perfect. The PS3 on the other hand isn't. It's very linear and not as comfortable while playing a Shooter. The WiiMote will probably give you the most fun since it is very involving BUT it won't help you be good at the game. While playing the Wii, I found it very difficult to play some of the games because of the WiiMote. Sometimes the sensor is a little sensitive or not sensitive enough. Considering I'm only standing 5 feet away, that should not be a problem. Precision is needed in a Shooter and the WiiMote does not provide that while the X-box 360 and PS3 controller does, XB360 being the superior one.
Now we will add the scenario of stripping the online community and controllers. Let's say each console had an online community and controller equivalent to each other. The sales would now look like this. XB360, PS3, and the Wii in a miserable position, barely selling.
You might be surprised about the PS3's position but it is there because of the price tag. No one wants to spend 400 dollars on a console but that is because they don't know what they're getting. The PS3 is a very powerful console. XB360 is still in first place because of its reasonable price. The Wii is failing because now it has nothing to offer. It's now considered just a better looking GameCube. Yes it's cheap, but do you really get a bang for your buck like the PS3? No.
Now you can say "Taking out features cannot justify a console war" but it can.
This takes us back to my first statement, the console war will not be ended easily because of the fan-boys. If you look at it from the perspective I just gave, the console war would be between XB360 and PS3. If I were to take out another thing: Price. Then the PS3 would win hands down.
This war really is senseless as it depends all on PREFERENCE. The PS3 should be seeing some Shooters soon with Killzone 2 and Resistance 2 but the Halo and Gears of War fanbase is so strong that an XB360 wouldn't convert over to the PS3 and Metriod Prime is not enough for the Wii keep Shooters at bay, that's probably why you see a lot of people owning another console along with the Wii.
Well, I don't know what else to say and my fingers are getting tired.
I say end the stupid arguments. PS3 is by far the most powerful console, but the XB360 will shine forever because of XBL. Home will be and improvement along with the rewards system that will be added sooner or later but the XBL community is just too strong and who the **** is gonna switch to PSN after they paid 50 dollars. I wouldn't personally if I were an XB fan, but I'm not, so :P.