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| QUOTE (bobblyhead @ Oct 27 2007, 04:42 AM) |
| Yeah, I need to lose wait though tbh. I'm like, 4 pounds overweight (and have been putting on a 'lil chub) and i can't run an 8 min mile to save my life. argh, and i'm having trouble asking, because, again, i'm not all that courageous. it looks quite easy, but is very, very hard, lol. i'm not the most athletic, and i could try to look a little better. besides, gossip just happened, etc. |
Trust me, you don't need to look athletic at all, but it's nice to work out after you ask her out. Anyway, being courageous isn't something you can just wake up and become one day. It takes practice. Try talking to a girl you don't care about. Just say some normal stuff and try to sound casual. Don't try to get to know her. When you're comfortable with that, then go for it with the actual girl. I know how tough it is to talk to someone and not let her know you like her. It happens to all of us. Until the day, all are one with the Matrix...I mean...
| QUOTE (bobblyhead @ Oct 27 2007, 04:59 AM) |
| Man, Zev, you seem to have a lot of experience with this stuff. Thanks, a whole bunch! |
Keep us and/or me updated. We...uhh...humans have to stick together. I'm always on IRC.
Yeah, I know how girls think because...I might be a girl! 
My roommate knows more about girls, it's like his favorite hobby (knowing about girls that is).Well, lemme sum it up in my opinion.
For the sake of it, I'll refer to her as x.
Now, x is about the same age and height as me. She is much more outgoing than me, and a fair bit more popular. She always hangs around some other girl (I'll refer to her as y) that my best friend IRL likes.
She is a lot more outgoing than me, not as smart as me (heh, I'm one of the smartest in my school). I'm not going to go into her appearance, because that isn't neccesary. x is quite kind, a fast runner, bold, and outgoing. I can't seem to detect personal flaws, because I don't know her too well.
Ech, I'm in kind of an akward position describing her. I just find her very likable. I can go more in depth if you do about what stuff you need to hear, lol.
For the sake of it, I'll refer to her as x.
Now, x is about the same age and height as me. She is much more outgoing than me, and a fair bit more popular. She always hangs around some other girl (I'll refer to her as y) that my best friend IRL likes.
She is a lot more outgoing than me, not as smart as me (heh, I'm one of the smartest in my school). I'm not going to go into her appearance, because that isn't neccesary. x is quite kind, a fast runner, bold, and outgoing. I can't seem to detect personal flaws, because I don't know her too well.
Ech, I'm in kind of an akward position describing her. I just find her very likable. I can go more in depth if you do about what stuff you need to hear, lol.
Well a name is always nice, but it isn't necessarily needed. If you're friends with "y", then you should ask "y" about "x" because she'll give good information and girls usually give better advice than guys. If "x" is outgoing, you should be outgoing as well or at least more open. "x" won't really be interested in you if you keep to yourself all the time. By the way, in your position right now, it seems optimal. What I mean is, it is good that she doesn't notice you as a first impression. Granted, that has to change, but right now it is fine. If she notices you and tries to avoid you or something, then you know what's up. If she notices you and acts like she's into you, then she's more than likely to be playing with you and in fact, she doesn't like you. Most girls know how to lure a guy in even if they seem geeky. In your case, I bet she has some experience with guys.
| QUOTE (bobblyhead @ Oct 28 2007, 12:01 AM) |
| I'm in a suboptimal position; she knows (as I said, gossip happened). So, that is where I'm at. I don't know how to approach her, or anything like that. Crazy little thing called love. |
Woah, woah! If she knows you like her, then you better get some balls and ask her out. The worst thing to do is to do nothing at all because now you're stuck. You've past the point of no return. You can no longer have a friendship...
| QUOTE (bobblyhead @ Oct 28 2007, 03:15 AM) |
| oh shi- Well, wish me luck. I'm off on a journey that I can't turn back. The journey of life. And first off, I need to get brave enough to ask. |
Well, don't just blurt out that you want to go out. Just talk to her and get to know her. If she knows you like her, then she'll want to talk back just to hear you out. Keep the conversation on her side meaning you ask stuff about her. Don't worry, I suck at this too. If you talk about yourself, you'll look cocky and she wouldn't want to date you. Make sure you get her number! Best of luck.
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